What are you getting out of it ?

To this statement, I speak of anger and revenge. Speaking in terms of cost effectiveness to you; you know invest in something, you should get a return, right? Plant a seed, get a tree, invest in a CD get more money for your money... So what are you getting out of your anger and revenge investment? Is it making you feel better inside? Are you happier with yourself when you lose control and spiral into anger, acting on it with revenge? Do you think you look better draped in anger? Do you think you become a people magnet because you are out of control and nasty? Does the stomach pain and indigestion that anger and revenge produce feel comforting to you, are you getting high on this on some level? Is a power trip for you? Did you know that real power is in control, not out of control, so by definition anger is weakness, not power...

Anger is weakness, a small person's response to their inability to love...

The only time God does not seek smallness in us is when we are small in our ability to love, so get out there and love, not the touchy, feeling love... that is lust... but the real love that thinks outside itself.. Did you know that real love does not feel good for the most part and it is hard to do. You have to get rid of yourself, your needs, your desires and focus in on someone else, think their needs, their desires.... Love is not what someone can do for you, but what you can do for them... When you "real" love it is like pouring a glass of milk for someone, there is always residue left in the glass, once they drink from it...love left over for you...or pick a flower and give it to someone the fragrance of the flower stays on your hands. Be love and you will be a people magnet... Be love show your power, drape yourself in beauty.

Don't be afraid it is a sign of weakness it is not, if you need proof of that look at a crucifix and see real love....